At Last, A Proven, Simple Way To Move From Arguments And Stress About Money To A Joyful Marriage Free Of Financial Worry And Focused On Creating Your Shared Dreams of Prosperity

Dear Friend Who Would Like to Transform Your Relationship with Your Spouse and Money,

Has something like this ever happened to you?

You started dating a wonderful person. You enjoy each other’s company, have shared interests and values; you feel a real connection. The relationship progresses and you start to plan a future together. You talk about your dreams, goals, whether or not you want children and discover that you share a common vision of the life you want to create.

The relationship moves along, and you get married, have the big wedding and the dream honeymoon. You return to your new life…and a pile of credit card bills. You feel stressed out, but figure the two of you can work it out, so you bring it up with your spouse.

“We are really in debt. We need to cut our spending.”

Your spouse responds with a blank stare and skulks off in a huff.

You persist and try again to talk about the money issue.

Suddenly, your new husband or wife lashes out at you in a tirade.

“Who is this person?” You ask. “What happened to my wonderful new mate?”

So, you shut up. You don’t sleep well that night. You feel alone, confused and concerned. You think about the dreams you talked about before you were married and wonder how you will ever make them happen. The life you envisioned seems to be slipping away.

Yes! I want to get out of debt.

You feel stressed, disappointed and angry. You work hard and you want to make a great life with your spouse, but you don’t see how it’s going to happen if you can’t even TALK about money.

A few more months go by, and you are watching the credit card balances go up while your savings stagnates, or worse, goes away. You and your spouse aren’t “clicking” like you used to. Your conversations, which were so fun and animated, have become short and stilted. You start to wonder what is really going on…

“Am I ever going to be able to secure my financial future?”

“Why is he/she so defensive about money?”

“We both earn about the same, why is my spouse doing all the spending?”

“Doesn’t he/she care about our future?”

“I wish I had known what I was getting into. Why didn’t I bring this up before we were married?”

“Did I marry the wrong person?”

So, what is going on?

How can two people who have so much in common be so different when it comes to money?

How can a perfectly good relationship break down so easily over financial issues?

And here’s the really BIG QUESTION:

Why do some couples seem to communicate effectively and enjoy the process as they build a nice nest egg, and you don’t?

I’ll give you a little hint. It’s not because life is “unfair”. It’s not because those people are rich already and don’t have to worry about money. It’s not because those people chose a better spouse.

The REAL reason is much simpler.

And if you’re serious about living a life free of financial worry and tension…where you can talk openly about money with your spouse and come up with solutions that work for both of you as a team, then you MUST know what it is.

Let me tell you right now.

Why You And Your Spouse Are Fighting About Money As You Tumble Down A Financial Spiral AND What To Do About It.

I have identified 7 common mistakes couples make in dealing with their finances.

1) Blaming and Complaining: pointing the finger at your partner and complaining about the circumstances without offering solutions makes for marital discord.

2) Avoidance: hiding your head in the sand, hoping money troubles will disappear only prolongs the inevitable and leaves both parties feeling helpless.

3) Bad timing for money talks: choosing the wrong moment to bring up money issues diminishes intimacy and heightens stress.

4) Letting the pressure build until one of you explodes: stuffing frustration only ensures that when money issues do come up, you will end up saying things you will later regret.

5) Being stuck in a rut, losing the big picture: only focusing on the immediate problems leaves no room for planning your dreams, and both of you will have trouble staying motivated.

6) Flying solo: When one partner assumes all the responsibility for creating a financial future, all that will grow is resentment and distrust.

7) Holding on to control, afraid to share responsibilities: Shared control means shared responsibility. If only one partner is in control, the other will surely sabotage all efforts.

Fortunately, there is a much better way.

The Only True Way to Transform Financial Conflict Into Inspiration, Connection and Wealth

Let me tell you a little secret about money and relationships.

When it comes to money, most people think that financial security is about having so many assets and so much money that you never have to worry about running out.

This is not the case with money at all.

That’s right. Financial security isn’t about being a multi-millionaire. In fact, if you look closely, you will find people who have a financially secure marriage have nothing in common except one thing.

True financial security is about both partners learning how to handle all the financial details, or at least understanding what’s going on, so if something were to happen to either person, the other spouse would know exactly what to do.

And there’s something else you should know. To live and love richly, couples merely need to align their financial life with what they TRULY value and work as a team to create it.

Yes! I want to get out of debt.

The Secret To Living A Fulfilling, Stress-free Financial Life With Your Spouse

You weren’t born with a financial vocabulary. And neither was your spouse. In fact, chances are, you learned about money the way most of us do―haphazardly. Observing your parents’ behavior and attitudes about money, you formed certain beliefs and unconscious ways of doing things.

One common pattern for dealing with money is to NOT talk about it. When you are dating, it doesn’t seem very sexy to talk about planning for retirement, saving for college, keeping proper insurance coverage, or whatever you think is important to your family’s financial security.

But what if I told you that if you truly want financial security in your marriage and your life, if you really want to end the senseless arguments about money that keep you from enjoying the love of your life, dating is exactly what you need to do.

Financial Dating^® Transforms Your Money Mistakes Into Success

You can break free of the money management patterns that have held you back from having the life you want. AND you can do it in a way that actually STRENGTHENS your marriage.

When you go through my Financial Dating^® program, you and your spouse will learn to:

• Get on the same page about money
• Work as a team
• Examine and reframe limiting beliefs
• Learn how to live the lifestyle you want based on real priorities
• View money and marriage success with a holistic approach
• Take financial action

What was once the “dreaded conversation” will become an opportunity to connect, to learn more about one another and to focus on your shared dreams and aspirations.

I wrote this program because I have seen too many marriages destroyed over money issues, and I want to help people get the most out of love and life.

Let me ask you, if you knew there was a roadmap GUARANTEED to lead you in the direction you want to go, wouldn’t just understanding WHERE you are now in YOUR SPECIFIC SITUATION being able to SEE what is in front of you and WHAT steps to take to get where you want to go IMMEDIATELY REMOVE a lot of the PRESSURE and WORRY you are experiencing right now?

You would feel more CONFIDENT and COMFORTABLE and CERTAIN about your direction which would help you breathe easier and regain a HAPPY outlook on life.

So, the question is: Is there such a “road map”?

And if so…would you want to grab it with both hands and get on track?

Well, the “road map” is one of the things you will find in Financial Dating^®. In this program, I CLEARLY outline SIMPLE STEPS that you can take to stop making the common mistakes people make with money and relationships and help you GET ON TRACK.

In this program, I will show you can transform your finances and your marriage so you can:

• Become a winning co-creative team
• Become awesome at money management
• Pay off debt
• Automate and increase savings
• Protect your family with proper insurance coverage
• Give to others
• Model positive money behaviors for your children
• Be magnificent at money maintenance
• Live and love richly
• Improve quality of life

Yes! I want to get out of debt.

Don’t take my word for it- listen to what has happened for other people JUST like YOU.

In the beginning our finances were completely up in the air.  I made the money and my wife would pay all the bills, or so I thought.  We went out a lot, spending money on spontaneous wants instead of prioritizing our needs.  I blamed my wife for not paying the bills on time.  When we made the decision to follow the guidelines in your Quick-Start Guide it was the best decision of our lives. We now make all financial decisions together and have a deeper respect for each other.  All our bills are paid on time, and some are even paid off! We are still growing and learning together.  Thank you Leslie – and my deepest thanks goes out to my wife, for all the hard work she has done and for us and for bringing us to you. Larry, Bozeman MT

One of the biggest challenges in our relationship has been to know where our money is going and to work together as a team to redirect our money to make our dreams come true.  By following the suggestion in the Financial Dating Quick Start Series to get together at least once a month for one hour to look at our spending plan for that month and to decide together how much we want to save and how much we can spend in each of our spending categories has revolutionized our relationship with each other and with money. We look at the dollar amounts on paper and once we’ve made our decisions we don’t need to react to each other’s spending throughout the month because we decided together ahead of time what that amount would be.  We are accountable to each other and if we want to address money concerns we now have a formal forum (the Financial Date) in which to do it. Geoff and I are so grateful to have (what I consider) spiritual tools to deal with one of the most difficult issues in our relationship-money.  Now, instead of getting angry at each other for the way we spend, it is a pleasure for either one of us to say, “I think it’s time we had our Financialer.” Many Thanks, Geoff & Grace Hammond

It’s Time To Let Go Of Old Patterns And Finally Have The Life You Hoped For When You Said “I Do.”

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You don’t have to be privileged, lucky or sneaky to have a happy marriage and a healthy bank account.

The key to wealth and a life free of financial stress and anxiety is not in controlling others or hiding your head in the sand. The truly financially secure couples simply learn and implement Financial Dating^®.

I truly want you to have financial freedom. I want you to realize your dreams. I want to have a long, happy, loving marriage. I want to see you help your children and loved ones achieve their dreams.

Everyone hopes one day to experience the “American Dream.” We think about how wonderful it would feel to be free of money worries, to be generous in helping others, to go to bed each night with peace of mind and to wake up every morning more in love with our partner than the night before, with a renewed sense of optimism and purpose.

I’ve written this program to help guide you on the path of true financial well-being―To ensure that your journey is one of joy, abundance, connection and fulfillment.

“Financial Dating Quick Start Series”

All my best,

Leslie Cunningham, CTACC

Money Coach and Financial Dating® Expert